Monday, June 10, 2013

At a Crossroads; Middletown Substance Abuse Services told to hit the road

Anyone who thinks Middletown doesn’t have a widespread drug problem either has their head in the sand, waiting for the train to pass, are ignorant, uninformed or in total denial. All they need to do is read the weekly Middletown Police reports that I post here to know that there is a big, big problem. Every week the report is filled with the names of Middletown residents that have been arrested on various drug possession charges. If reading the police reports aren’t enough to convince you that there is a problem than take a look at the Methadone clinic on the corner of Apple Tree Farm Rd and Hwy 35 – if there isn’t a problem, why is it there? - Or talk to any Middletown high school student that you know and ask them if there is a problem, if they’re honest you’d be astonished. My son and a few of his friends have told me in the past that the hallways of his school are full of all kinds of drugs that can be easily scored at anytime. There are kids that sell drugs out of their lockers between periods and after school.

As a parent of a teenager, I’m concerned when I hear that drugs are as prevalent as they seem to be. It’s easy to dismiss what a handful of teenagers say and chalk it up as teenage angst or hyperbole, knowing what it was like when I was 17 years old and in high school. We all knew who the druggies were and where to get a couple of joints if that was what you were into, but today it’s different, we’re not talking about marijuana anymore, we’re talking heavy duty drugs like Heroine, methamphetamines and prescription drugs such as Oxycodine and Xanax. It’s scary how easy it is for kids to get a hold of this stuff and get hooked. That’s why it concerns me when I hear that Crossroads, the township sponsored substance abuse counseling center located at Middletown’s Croydon Hall complex, has been told that it must ” hit the road” to make room for the new, all girls “catholic school”, Trinity Hall.


Back in January, the Middletown Township Committee passed ORDINANCE # 2013-3076, leasing the former Parks & Recreation Administration Building on the Croydon Hall property, to Trinity Hall. Trinity Hall describes itself as an “independent all-girls high school in Monmouth County……. (Whose) mission purposely honors the values of Roman Catholicism – an objective valued by the school’s founders from the start.” The township ordinance refers to this temporary lease as “expanding educational opportunities in the community while also providing much needed funding for open space and recreational purposes, and resulting in certain capital improvements being made to the building.”, which is all well and good however, the Trinity Hall administrators have expressed concerns regarding the many individuals (both young and old) and families who utilize the services within Crossroads - Crossroads was opened in 1998 and is a short-term, outpatient treatment center which offers services at no charge to Middletown residents. It is a New Jersey State Licensed facility that provides education, consultation, assessment, treatment and referral assistance to all who need it. Crossroads provides several types of counseling services which includes individual adolescent and adult counseling, family counseling, and group counseling. Crossroads is also home to the Middletown Municipal Alliance for the Prevention of Substance Abuse.

Trinity Hall administrators don’t want any part of Crossroads or the many individuals that they provide services to at Croydon Hall, mingling among their student population and have told the township as much. Back in March, on the day before a parent meeting held in the Croydon Hall Gymnasium, Trinity Hall administrators had the township remove two identifying signs from the complex; One was removed from the main office building (the White House) and another from the entry sign leading into the Croydon Hall grounds so as not to raise concerns from the parents of potential students.

More recently, in order to accommodate Trinity Hall‘s administrators, staff, parents, and students and save the $285K the township will receive in lease payments along with a promise to upgrade the former Parks & Recreation building that will be used for the school over the next year and which is not currently necessary for any public purpose, township administrators have told Crossroads it must relocated to a new, as of yet, unnamed mystery location somewhere within Middletown.

Drug and alcohol abuse does not differentiate based on color, religion, political affiliation, social status, sex, age or for any reason, moving Crossroads - a program that has helped so many, is wrong.

This action by Middletown administrators demonstrate that for a few shekels of silver, the needs of many citizens of the township doesn’t matter when compared to the special interests and demands of Trinity Hall and the 30 or so soon to be enrolled students, few of which will be Middletown residents themselves.

20 comments:

Anonymous said...

Is Trinity's lease temporary or will they be at Croyden Hall permanently?

MiddletownMike said...

Trinity's lease is temporary and is planned for 1 year before it moves to a permanent location somewhere else. Crossroads however has nowhere else with int he township to go that is suitable for the services that are provided.


Anonymous said...

I wonder if the parents that are considering enrolling their children in Trinity know that the students will have to move somewhere else in a year's time? That may be an inconvenience for them if Trinity is relocated to a town other than Middletown.

Anonymous said...

If your children know about kids who are selling drugs out of their lockers between classes, why haven't they told their teachers or principal who these kids are?

Or why don't you find out the kids names and meet with your children's principal?

Wouldn't that be the best thing for all involved? There is a lot of heroin in Middletown and kids have been known to overdose. If you have information that could prevent that from happening, what are you waiting for?

Anonymous said...

Such a shame that what is obviously a center and service much needed in this community, that they are being forced out. While i understand the economic enticement for the town, I am suprised that the township cannot relocate Crossroads elsewhere on township property. One of the larger park buildings perhaps? I think a bigger issue is Trinitys lack of empathy to these people. Jesus embraced all, not just the ones who can pay, and look nice.

MiddletownMike said...

Anon 5:39,

You ask good questions that unfortunately I don't have good answers for.

Like most teenagers my son doesn't/didn't want to get involved. When I pressed him to explain himself and provide names he wouldn't talk about it any longer.

It's tough being an awkward high schooler and I understand his concerns but unless he or his friends are willing to take a stand and let the school administrators know what has been happening, there isn't much that I can do.

It would be only hearsay on my part if I went to the school without the actual hard facts. The school principal would assure me that nothing like what I have been told is taking place and that would be the end of it.

To be honest, the real situation is more than like somewhere in between what my son and his friends have said and what the school would say.

Anonymous said...

Why doesn't anyone ask Tony Fiore what he has to hide?

What kind of kickbacks did he receive on the Trinity deal?

Isn't it interesting that they "miraculously" found a home for those poor, disposessed, township workers by closing the Bayshore library because of "lack of funds" and library "mismanagement"...

(/sarcasm).

When will the people of Middletown wake up and vote these over-reaching thugs out of power? They feel that they can do anything that they want. And they can, because the people of Middletown let them.

I think we should subpoena Fiore's emails regarding the Trinity deal to make sure there was no malfeasance afoot. I mean, "how will we know, unless we see the emails"...

Anonymous said...

I think you would be surprised by the response if you could provide specific information about individuals.

Students in a school don't enjoy the same rights with regard to searches as we do.

It is a much lower standard of proof that is required to search them and have them tested for drugs.

Next time your kids mention something like this I would reconsider the wisdom of mentioning them on your blog, lest it gets back to their classmates, and notify the school with specifics.

Brian Froelich said...

re Helen comments,

Her points are true, well taken, obviously heartfelt, and appreciated. But they don‘t deal with the specific subject raised. Crossroads, and other facilities like it, generally deal with people who have already fallen into the pit of drug abuse – for whatever reason. I know from firsthand experience trying to help relatives, friends, and students that programs like Crossroads can be an invaluable help and lifeline for these people.

In fact many schools are now incorporating substance abuse education and remediation into their curriculum and administration.

Middletown, regardless of its arrangement with Trinity Hall or anyone else, should work especially hard and cooperatively with institution like Crossroads which are serving a necessary and valuable community service to preserve their benefits- particular against short term issues. To do otherwise would be to hide their heads in the sands and ignore the opportunity to save lives and improve the community.

(PS This looks like yet another area where the Freeholders, who control enormous assets, are silent on the problem and solution.)

Anonymous said...

Well, when the students involved in these things are politically connected, we know what happens (remember the principal at South?)No doubt THAT locker search had a long lasting and chilling effect on searching lockers for drugs and alcohol.

Why even bother telling an administrator at this point. Middletown has shown it cares more about the interests of its politicians than the lives of its students.

Anonymous said...

Before Trinity leased space they knew Crossroads was there, what services were offered and to what type of people so why the complaints now? Also, its good to know that not one person involved with Trinity has or will have a substance abuse problem LOL! Some people are so naive! SMH!

Anonymous said...

You are all being silly. It is about the money and nothing else. If they rent to the school the town receives an income, if the town doesn't rent it out then no income. It is a purely business decision unless you want your taxes raised and I sure as hell don't

Anonymous said...

Middletown is governmental entity, not a business.

Anonymous said...

We would see no arrests for possession of we legalized the drugs. half of the issues gone.

Anonymous said...

So, Mikey, do your "sources" tell you that the Township has told Crossroads to "get out" and is leaving them to fend for themselves? Or is the town working to find them a new spot?

I am willing to bet that they are, and that Crossroads will have a new home before the beginning of the school year.

And I am also willing to bet that you will cry crocodile tears about the "horrible situation" caused by this, the "turmoil and angst" because the Crossroads employees and their clients will have to "gasp" drive to a DIFFERENT LOCATION! Oh the humanities!

Oh, and Mike, can you comment on Anon at 10:17's libelous statements? I do believe that you - as a responsible "journalist" should carefully control the content of your blog, lest you get sued for aiding and abetting such insulting, lying statements...

MiddletownMike said...

Anon 5:53,

You're funny!

For your information my "sources" have told me that the township is keeping them in the dark about relocating however there are hints that the township is looking to purchase a residential piece of property to house Crossroads. Can you imagine the local outcry if the township actually moves this program smack dab in the middle of someone's neighborhood?

Also as per my "sources" moving Crossroads and its various services won't be as easy as it seems. The state certified substance abuse counselors have very specific requirements that are writing into their service agreements which may prohibit their relocation to another facility. If they were to change locations their funding could be lost. Having the terms of their service agreements changed is not an easy process and could take many months to do so.

Anonymous said...

Anon 5:53...

Sybil don't you ever learn...the syntax of your "essays" and bulls--- identify you every time.
Why don't you go rattle your tail on MMM or doesn't AG love you anymore ?

Anonymous said...

Aren't they "smack dab in the middle" of a neighborhood now? Besides, a residential property can't be used for a commercial purpose anyway. As is your norm, your "sources" are full of it!

I'm pretty sure that any and all obstacles can and will be overcome. I'm also pretty sure that you will gripe about it -- among other things...

Any comment on the libel here in your blog?

Anonymous said...

Middletown and Tryinity have their heads in the sand. It is ridiculous thst the signs were removed!

Anonymous said...

I grew up in Middletown. This whole thing is a shame. I read your blog all the time and see so many names I recognize in the police blotters. I was one of those names a few years ago. I had overdosed in Middletown on Heroin (TWICE!) and thank God that the police & EMT's were able to save my life. I now have multiple years clean and sober, I am married, have an excellent salaried job, graduated college and live a completely "normal" life (hey I even pay taxes to the township now as a homeowner).

So to anyone who is opposed to these types of services or doesn't think they help. I am a true testimony to prove they do.

I can understand where these parents are coming from saying they don't want the "types" of people Crossroads brings in on the grounds of their private school they are paying for. However I believe both sides need to be understanding of each other and can reach a good compromise.

It is truly sad to say, and I pray to God that it doesn't happen, but if things keep going the way they are in Middletown (and surrounding areas) in High Schools ... At least one student from this new school has a high probability of needing these types of services that CrossRoads and similar facilities offer.

--I've never commented on any of your posts but this one pulled on my heart strings.
-D